Should I stay or should I go now...

L and I just got into an argument. I tried to talk to her about the calling me irresponsible thing.

It did not go well.

She said I get upset whenever she makes a comment about things I am doing in my life. She says I'm too sensitive. She called me a drama queen. It's amazing to me that I get called the drama queen.

I go out of my way to start with "I.." statements, instead of "You..." statements. I do everything I think I can to try to communicate. I don't know what else to do.

She confesed that she doesn't understand me, and she says I don't understand her.

I know this.

I want to work on things. I kept asking her if she would work on things, she never said anything in response.

She kept saying she doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who gets offended by everything she says.

After I suggested we try to understand each other. She said it is ok if i don't understand her because she loves me.

I said that I suffer horribly when I am misunderstood. She said well then maybe I am not the right person for you.

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Wow. This writing down the conversation things is helping me understand things better. When I read what was said, I realize that she doesn't want to be with me. She doesn't really want to work on anything. What is the point? I love her. She loves me. But is love a license to make another person miserable. Some people say yes.

I just don't know.